Actually, it's not a secret at all. I'm a teacher with ADHD!
That means that some days, the lesson plans are on a sticky note or thought up in the bathroom (pls don't tell my principal đ„Ž), and I assign a student to keep track of all the random places I lose the papers that I JUST printed.
But it also means...
Not quite Type A, not quite Type Bâbut a (*slightly* unhinged) secret, third thing
The kids *actually* learn!
I'm an ELA teacher who's also a data & spreadsheet freak (but I refuse to do a simple equation without a calculator because I need a 0% error rate, okay??). I teach dance part-time, but I could also lay in bed for 12 hoursâeven though I can't sleep past 5:30am. I studied Film & Media Studies at Georgetown University, and yet...my attention span (or lack thereof) makes actually sitting through a full movie virtually impossible. I cherish children's media (shout out to Fred Rogers), but I could also do a one-woman show performing Nene Leakes' most viral quotes. And I might start a conversation talking about classroom management and touch on my thoughts on hair care, Bravo hot takes, my favorite font combos, and my political viewsâall in 7 minutes.
If that felt relatable, you're the exact teacher I built Gentler for.
Youâre burnt out because you care too much â and youâre carrying systems that were never designed for real classrooms, real kids, or real human nervous systems (yours or theirs).
I know this because Iâve lived it.
Iâve taught with scripted curricula that didnât fit my students or their needs at all.
Iâve taught âgreat lessonsâ only to realize that by Tuesday, my students had full-on amnesia.
Iâve spent entire weekends planning things that technically worked⊠but I knew I wouldnât be able to keep up.
I've watched my blood pressure rise to stroke levels due to the stressful demands of the job
And Iâve stared at student data thinking, âAdmin must think Iâm Harry Potter.â đ
What finally clicked wasnât a new planner, a cuter anchor chart, or a better morning routine.
It was realizing that teaching feels unbearable when the systems behind it are misalignedâwhen instruction, behavior, pacing, and assessment are all pulling in different directions, and you are the glue holding it together.
Thatâs where my work lives.
Hereâs the thing I know about tired teachers (especially the smart ones like us đ):
Youâre not burnt out because you donât care.
Not performative data.
Not âjust trust the processâ data.
(Actually) useful, calming, decision-making data.
The kind that helps you:
Now that we've handled introductions, let's get some important things out the way...
Turning on my candle warmer, morning protein shake + ADHD meds (breakfast of champions!), prep period sigh of relief
Color coding a data spreadsheet, flipping through a book, teaching a dance class, discussing Shrek with my 4th graders (happens more often than you might think)
Uncontrolled chaos, lengthy lectures, reading as a punishment, complaining without eventually seeking a solution, going into the boys' bathroom (yuck)
Seeking solutions, being a forever learner, slow mornings, treating students with dignity and respect, holding high expectations
my dance class playlist
listening:
mcdonalds's fries
CRAVING:
the playful classroom
READING:
a peach marg!
DRINKING:
a trashy Bravo reality series
watching:
Currently...
a few of my favorite things...
Kid's TV. I grew up inspired by Between the Lions, Mr. Rogers, and Sesame Street. My dream is to create a similar show. And it's coming soon!
my happy place!
my happy place!
Sydney, AUS! I spent a semester there while I studied abroad and fell in love.
Dancing. I love that I'm able to (successfully) monetize a hobby that keeps me active and lets me be creative outside of the classroom.
My Favorite Things
Sunshine. Wayfarers kickstarter semiotics, quinoa godard dreamcatcher hexagon pop-up hoodie.
Ice cream. Microdosing gochujang keffiyeh salvia. Hoodie knausgaard art party.
my guilty pleasure
Photos! Hashtag fashion axe palo santo fanny pack, ramps cornhole messenger bag asymmetrical.
TEA
call
ice cream
no topsheet
GOING OUT
SPOTIFY
SUSHI
coffee
text
cake
TOPSheet
STAYING IN
APPLE MUSIC
PIZZA
Where I stand on the super important stuff... Agree / disagree?
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